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Friday, 30 December 2011

Ghanaian Actresses Are Hotter Than Nigerian Actresses

Yvonne Nelson & Yvonne Okoro

When you compare Nigerian actresses with Ghanaian actresses, you will see that the Ghanaian Actresses Yvonne Nelson, Yvonne Okoro, Juliet Ibrahim, Nana Ama McBrown and Jocelyn Dumas are hotter than Nigeria’s Genevieve Nnaji, Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde, Rita Dominic, Mercy Johnson, Ini Edo and Tonto Dike on and off screen.

They have more swagger and style, like Yvonne Nelson and Jocelyn Dumas who are already fast becoming style icons in Ghana and beyond. Yvonne Nelson in particular is just too hot from her head to her toes.

What makes the Ghollywood actresses hotter than Nollywood actresses? Their thrilling sex appeal and trendy style! Except for Mercy Johnson and the audacious Tonto Dike, the other Nollywood divas cannot compete with Yvonne Nelson, Yvonne Okoro, Juliet Ibrahim, Ashanti sexy symbol Nana-Ama-Mcbrown and Joselyn-Dumas.

It takes more than a pretty face to be hot! When you are hot, you are sexy and so the Ghanaian actresses are definitely sexier than Nigerian actresses, because they are more daring to go the extra mile in playing their roles in romantic and erotic scenes of movies. The Nigerian actresses seem to be inhibited by certain reasons restraining them from emphasizing their sexuality in movies. They are coy when it comes to romantic and erotic roles and you can see that they are slyly hesitant; but coquettish.

Chika Ike, Ini Edo, Tonto Dike, Yvonne Okoro

The African woman is naturally sexy and as they say hips don’t lie, African women from their lips to their hips are sex symbols from coast to coast. And they don’t need Victoria’s Secret brassieres or thongs to prove their sexuality.

That is why African maidens from Ghana to Nigeria and down to Swaziland and South Africa were bold to walk and dance topless in traditional festivals before the hypocritical Western puritans and prudes introduced their moral and religious code of conduct to restrict the public display of the sexuality of African beauty.

We can still see more of the sexuality of the African beauty in Ghanaian actresses and that has made them hotter than the majority of Nigerian actresses.


Source: Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima/nigeriafilms.com

Rihanna’s New Video Is BAD

Rihanna
RIHANNA's latest video will have you wondering if she was given ill-fitting pants for Christmas. The singer rubs or grabs her crotch at least TWENTY times in the video for new single You Da One.

But it's much more enjoyable viewing than when Michael Jackson used to do it.

While the promo for We Found Love looked like a gritty episode of This Is England, Rihanna goes solo in this effort.

Shot in east London, the black and white film is like a "specialist" remake of A Clockwork Orange, filled with her trademark grinding.

Having rounded off her London residency at The O2, Rihanna should have spent the festive period with her feet up — but typically she's been propping up bars back home in Barbados. Must have been celebrating her recent Bizarre Lady of 2011 award.

On Boxing Day she was spotted at several parties on the island to "lime", as the Bajans say, with friends — and she didn't hold back on the booze. A source said: "Rihanna went to a fish restaurant first where she sank a few drinks and bought seafood for a hundred or so punters there. "Then she went to a 'lime on the hill' where people gather and dance to sound systems.

"She was loving it. She climbed on top of a Jeep to pull out her moves, all while swigging on a bottle of rum. Other revellers — especially the blokes — were impressed." It's certainly more exciting than a traditional Boxing Day eating Quality Street and playing board games.

Although a game of Twister with Rihanna would be fun.  check the video out, It's right here on this site.
 
Source: thesun.co.uk

Thursday, 29 December 2011

Rawlings ‘rejoins’ NDC for election 2012

Rawlings and other dignitaries at the lecture

Former President Jerry Rawlings is urging the leadership of the ruling National Democratic Congress party to unite its ranks and salvage it from “perpetual doom,” expressing hope it is not too late to do so.

In a dramatic retreat from his oft-repeated threats not to join the party in its election 2012 campaigns, former President Rawlings told a gathering of his supporters, party followers and cadres that it is after all not late to win back the support of the party’s source of power - the grassroots.

“Ladies and gentlemen, we find ourselves in a situation where we have become so distanced from reality, that the local structures that benefitted the NDC and accorded it the opportunity to garner public opinion at the lowest level have all dissipated as the grassroots membership have lost trust and confidence, rather opting to organize demonstrations and send petitions, many of which are ignored.

“It is not too late to save the NDC from the abyss. Those who have the power and capacity to create a renewed confidence in the party have to wake up from their political slumber and remember their true beginnings,” he counseled as the crowd that filled the National Theatre in Accra to participate in a public lecture to mark the 30th anniversary of the 31st December Revolution he led, cheered.

The lecture was under the theme; Three decades of grassroot democracy: its relevance to current political dispensation.

He said “The most dangerous mistake of any political force is to forget its roots and that unfortunately is the bane of many of our political leaders today. Rather than represent the will of the people, many have chosen to represent their own individual and parochial agendas.

“Ladies and gentlemen, tune in to radio and television nowadays and you will be assailed by a level of political intolerance and vitriol that insults the very heartbeat of the ordinary people of this country. Politicians in their bid to protect their positions outdo themselves in the name of debate putting up hollow arguments that would shock even a five-year-old.”

Ex-President Rawlings reminded those in leadership of the NDC that it would be politically wrong for them to justify allegations of abuse of office, corruption, malfeasance and incompetence against them by pointing to whatever wrongs their opponents may have committed, saying he had been criticizing the party and its present crop of leaders because he cannot be a bootlicker.


“We go into an election in 2012 and many have made several calls for unity as we enter the New Year. For many unity means keep quiet, support the NDC as it is and we will win the election.

“It is not Rawlings who wins elections. It is the ordinary people of Ghana who win elections. They make choices based on the capacity of a party to listen to them, to accept their role in governance and to pursue an agenda that protects their interests. Those are the ideals Jerry Rawlings and millions of Ghanaians stand for.

“If Jerry Rawlings represents the NDC then it must be an NDC that represents these ideals. It will be pointless and indeed negative to the fortunes of the party if I act like a hypocrite in the name of elections and start preaching ‘hail the NDC’. The time has come for those who have the responsibility of changing the free-fall of the NDC to bring it to a halt and take drastic actions, however late to re-embrace the ideals that won the party the 2008 elections.”

Read the full statement of Ex-President Rawlings below.



A section of the crowd that attended the anniversary lecutre


ADDRESS BY FLT LT JERRY JOHN RAWLINGS, FORMER PRESIDENT OF GHANA AND LEADER OF THE REVOLUTION AT A LECTURE TO MARK THE 30TH ANNIVERSARY OF THE 31ST DECEMBER REVOLUTION – NATIONAL THEATRE, WEDNESDAY DECEMBER 28, 2011

Mr. Chairman, fellow colleagues and comrades:

It is inspiring that we have all converged here today to commemorate the 30th anniversary celebrations of the 31st December 1981 Revolution.

Ladies and gentlemen, the revolution was borne out of a national quest to instill a sense of transparency and integrity into the politics of our country. The revolution was one that created an avenue for true grassroots political participation, creating a form of political governance that gave responsibility to the very core of our local social structure.

The newfound political structure that included the Peoples Defence Committees and Arbitration Committees that swiftly dispensed justice brought a sense of participation in politics unsurpassed in Ghana.

It is therefore relevant that this year’s celebration is under the theme: THREE DECADES OF GRASSROOT PARTICIPATION; ITS RELEVANCE TO THE CURRENT POLITICAL DISPENSATION, particularly because the corruption of today has gone overboard – completely overboard – since 2000 and that is because the ordinary people have lost a say in the political management of this country.

Corruption I believe, is easier to fight when leadership, be it political, traditional, religious or family head are all involved and providing exemplary leadership.

Let us draw our minds back and try to relive the moral outrage of our nation in the late 70s, to have exacted such a high price for a corruption level that was no where near what we have in Ghana today.

The great irony is that, in no other place or time did we have a revolt that exacted such a price. A revolt being class inclined would have to be absolute and total or partial and live with the dangers engaged in the subsequent reforms. But for the policing effect of our presence and the power of the will of the people in the first ten years of our revolutionary democracy and to a lesser degree in the subsequent eight years of constitutional democracy so much more of our nation’s virtue could have been lost.

I have said it over and over that no group of lesser integrity could have survived in government without attempting to corrupt and disempower the will and integrity of our nation, hence the concentrated effort that was made to corrupt especially the judiciary and uniformed institutions and the general use of terror tactics.

The shock of the nation coiled itself in anger and took back its power in the 2004 election. Our leadership was however unable to prevent the electoral theft. The theft was easily preventable and the nation could also have spontaneously demonstrated it. The nation had to suffer a further four years of suffering under a very corrupt leadership.

With the approach of the 2008 elections the nation had to reject the faint-heartedness and brace herself once more. The nation was coiled once again. People were preparing, if necessary to die for their freedom once again.

I recall warning the world and the government that the nation was coiled for an explosion of joy or an explosion of rage. Any attempt to repeat the theft of 2004 will bring about serious explosion whose consequences will far exceed that of June 4, 1979.

The late Nigerian President saved the sub-region with the timely intervention to ensure that the verdict was not stolen again. The whole hope of the nation for a healthy cleansing effect has been dashed with our poor leadership and has even exacerbated the depth of corruption in this country.

Political style and approach will always be different as leadership changes, but the ideals and basis for the establishment of a political cause cannot be toyed with. Unfortunately that is the situation the current NDC finds itself. I have to sadly admit that the there is a breakdown of values in the NDC and many who find themselves in positions of leadership within the party and government operate as if there is no ideological basis behind the establishment of the party.

Many have decided it is convenient to pursue sycophantic support for the current leadership at the expense of what the party stands for and see truth and constructive criticism as damaging to the fortunes of the NDC.

Ladies and gentlemen, we find ourselves in a situation where we have become so distanced from reality, that the local structures that benefitted the NDC and accorded it the opportunity to garner public opinion at the lowest level have all dissipated as the grassroots membership have lost trust and confidence, rather opting to organize demonstrations and send petitions, many of which are ignored.

It is not too late to save the NDC from the abyss. Those who have the power and capacity to create a renewed confidence in the party have to wake up from their political slumber and remember their true beginnings.

The most dangerous mistake of any political force is to forget its roots and that unfortunately is the bane of many of our political leaders today. Rather than represent the will of the people, many have chosen to represent their own individual and parochial agendas.

Ladies and gentlemen, tune in to radio and television nowadays and you will be assailed by a level of political intolerance and vitriol that insults the very heartbeat of the ordinary people of this country. Politicians in their bid to protect their positions outdo themselves in the name of debate putting up hollow arguments that would shock even a five-year-old.

The whole concept of political pluralism has been so abused that one wonders whether we can salvage the situation. Many in the NDC leadership now believe they do not owe any explanation to the populace. In reacting to allegations of abuse of office, corruption, malfeasance, incompetence and a host of others, they respond in good measure by accusing the opposition of having done worse things. In other words we can afford to make the same mistakes because you started it.

We go into an election in 2012 and many have made several calls for unity as we enter the New Year. For many unity means keep quiet, support the NDC as it is and we will win the election.

It is not Rawlings who wins elections. It is the ordinary people of Ghana who win elections. They make choices based on the capacity of a party to listen to them, to accept their role in governance and to pursue an agenda that protects their interests. Those are the ideals Jerry Rawlings and millions of Ghanaians stand for.

If Jerry Rawlings represents the NDC then it must be an NDC that represents these ideals. It will be pointless and indeed negative to the fortunes of the party if I act like a hypocrite in the name of elections and start preaching ‘hail the NDC’. The time has come for those who have the responsibility of changing the free-fall of the NDC to bring it to a halt and take drastic actions, however late to re-embrace the ideals that won the party the 2008 elections.

It is not too late to go back to the grassroots; to the footsoldiers and listen to them. The level of despondency amongst our support base is largely due to the detachment of our leadership from the people as well as the betrayal of those who have refused to blindly support the current leadership.

We have so far failed to correct the several wrongs of the past – the failures of the NPP that we promised to correct. Case after case have been lost in court not because innocent people were being tried, but because we failed miserably to properly investigate before going to court. Now we have lost the moral high ground.

Ladies and gentlemen, in criticizing the current government I do so based on the fact that I interact with people on a daily basis and they express their disappointment with the detachment of both party and government from the people. If the party leadership is so detached from the people, then how can it hold the government in check? Rawlings can point these out a million times but if the party leadership in particular will not wake up and do a genuine self-examination we will not get far.

Every sympathizer of the NDC has a role to play in pointing these lapses out to the party leadership and government. You are the ones who are enduring the pain and you cannot sit quiet and allow yourselves to be cowed into silence. Speak up and compel your leaders to listen. Do not allow the sweet gifts of election year to confuse you into a false sense of security.

I dare to caution that if we fail to identify the true basis of what the NDC stands for and change direction quickly we will go into an election falsely patting ourselves for a good job done only to consign ourselves into perpetual doom because the people of this country are disappointed with our performance so far.

Thank you.

Source:myjoyonline

Porn Star Banned From Britain


roxy reynolds
 



A "BOOTYLICIOUS" porn star has been banned from entering Britain, it was revealed yesterday.

Roxy Reynolds — famed for her big bottom and voted one of 2010's top adult film performers — was set to earn a fortune over the festive season, working as a high-class escort to Premier League footballers, actors and senior figures in central London.

But the model and rapper was stopped by UK Border Agency officers when she landed at Heathrow from Philadelphia.

The 27-year-old was using a visitors' visa that didn't entitle her to work. But border staff had found her "London Tour" advertised on escort agency websites and Twitter.

One blurb read: "This US XXX star is one of the most prolific and popular ebony ladies in the industry. You will LOVE your time with her."

Another said of £550-an-hour Roxy: "She really knows how to move... and her naughty attitude will leave you drained."

A UKBA spokesman said: "A US national was refused entry on December 18 and returned to the USA the next day."

A source added: "A lot of Roxy clients will feel let down this Christmas."
 

 
Source: thesun.co.uk

Wednesday, 28 December 2011

Dress-To-Kill Nigerian Actress To Be Officially Ordained Pastor

Bishop Joel Thomas, Cathy (both from Toronto), Eucharia being prayed for


For those who know this woman once referred to as an action woman or iron lady, her present life style would come to them as a miracle.
The reason for her total change of lifestyle is still a mystery to some of her close associates. To them, UK, as those close to her call her, God must have specially and divinely touched her.

Some have even insinuated that her child, Raymond’s sickle cell anemia condition might have made her draw close to God, while others standing in her defense believe that people initially got her acting personality mixed with her real person as Eucharia Anunobi.

It was news when it was first reported that this once dressing-to-kill acting goddess of the Glamour Girls fame, where nudity in films almost first started in Nollywood, has become a born again Christian.The story did not stop at that, she was also said to have become an Evangelist in the vineyard of God. What was remaining for her to do then was following the steps of some others before her in the ministry by having her own church.




Eucharia during earlier times

NigeriaFilms.Com can exclusively report to you the latest step of the estranged wife of Charles Ukwu in serving her heavenly father as a born again Christian and an Evangelist.

According to information available to us, Eucharia was anointed by some pastors on Sunday December 18, 2011 at Fresh Oil Ministry, Egbeda, Lagos. She was laid hands on to officially join the soul winning business of God.
According to exclusive information available to us, plans have already been concluded by the pastors to officially ordain the former bad girl of Nollywood as a pastor in the vineyard of God.

Eucharia has started her work as an evangelist, as she has already been mounting the pulpit to teach the church congregation.
As we learnt, her ordination into pastor-hood would come up during Easter in 2012. We wish Eucharia Anunobi success in her new status.



Source: Osaremen Ehi James/Nigeriafilms.com

Rawlings: Corruption In Mills' Administration Has Gone Overboard





Former President Jerry John Rawlings has slammed the Mills-Mahama administration over what he says is their inability to tackle corruption, malfeasance and abuse of office headlong.

According to the former president, “the corruption of today has gone overboard", but sadly there appears to be virtually no effort at the leadership level to address the social canker, and therefore called for a “massive clean-up”.

"It is therefore relevant that this year’s celebration is under the theme...particularly because the corruption of today has gone overboard – completely overboard – since 2000 and that is because the ordinary people have lost a say in the political management of this country...Corruption I believe, is easier to fight when leadership, be it political, traditional, religious or family head are all involved and providing exemplary leadership," he said.

To him, though it is not too late to save the NDC from the abyss, the leadership of the NDC must wake up from their political slumber and do a genuine self-examination, otherwise, “we’ll not go far”.

Whiles indicting the Mills-Mahama administration of failing to prosecute alleged acts of corruption that occurred under the watch of ex-president Kufuor, the former president attributed the level of despondency in the NDC to largely the detachment of its leaders from the people as well as the betrayal of those who have refused to blindly support the current leadership.

"Political style and approach will always be different as leadership changes, but the ideals and basis for the establishment of a political cause cannot be toyed with. Unfortunately that is the situation the current NDC finds itself. I have to sadly admit that the there is a breakdown of values in the NDC and many who find themselves in positions of leadership within the party and government operate as if there is no ideological basis behind the establishment of the party...Ladies and gentlemen, we find ourselves in a situation where we have become so distanced from reality, that the local structures that benefitted the NDC and accorded it the opportunity to garner public opinion at the lowest level have all dissipated as the grassroots membership have lost trust and confidence, rather opting to organize demonstrations and send petitions, many of which are ignored...

"It is not too late to save the NDC from the abyss. Those who have the power and capacity to create a renewed confidence in the party have to wake up from their political slumber and remember their true beginnings," the former president said.

Mr Rawlings was speaking at a public lecture in Accra on Wednesday to mark the 30th anniversary of the 31st December Revolution which was on the theme: "Three Decades of Grassroots Participation: Its Relevance to the Current Political Dispensation”.

Addressing the cadre front and members of the NDC at the function, the ex-president was also critical of the attitude of some members of the NDC, who when accused of being corrupt, turned around to rather lambast and indict the opposition NPP of indulging in worst corrupt practices during their tenure.

"Many in the NDC leadership now believe they do not owe any explanation to the populace. In reacting to allegations of abuse of office, corruption, malfeasance, incompetence and a host of others, they respond in good measure by accusing the opposition of having done worse things. In other words we can afford to make the same mistakes because you started it," the ex-military leader said.

Mr Rawlings (left) and President Mills (right)



Touching on repeated calls for a united NDC especially as the 2012 election approaches, an animated Mr Rawlings pointed out that elections are won by the masses and not him, adding that it will be hypocritical on his part if he starts preaching “Hail The NDC”, all in the name of elections.

“We go into an election in 2012 and many have made several calls for unity as we enter the New Year. For many unity means keep quiet, support the NDC as it is and we will win the election. It is not Rawlings who wins elections. It is the ordinary people of Ghana who win elections...If Jerry Rawlings represents the NDC then it must be an NDC that represents these ideals. It will be pointless and indeed negative to the fortunes of the party if I act like a hypocrite in the name of elections and start preaching ‘hail the NDC’. The time has come for those who have the responsibility of changing the free-fall of the NDC to bring it to a halt and take drastic actions, however late to re-embrace the ideals that won the party the 2008 elections.

“It is not too late to go back to the grassroots; to the footsoldiers and listen to them.”


Source: Nana Kwadwo Asante/Peacefmonline.com

Dr. Paa Kwesi Nduom Quits CPP

Dr Nduom

 
The 2008 Convention People’s Party (CPP) flagbearer, Dr. Paa Kwesi Nduom has declared unequivocally that he will not contest the CPP’s presidential primary when the party opens nominations for prospective candidates to vie for the flagbearership slot.

Addressing the media on a number of issues concerning the CPP and his personal political ambitions in Accra on Wednesday morning, Dr Nduom said he will contest the 2012 general elections on the ticket of a new political party.

That political party cum 'movement', he said, will be known in two months’ time.

“When the Convention People’s Party (CPP) opens nomination next month, I will not participate in that process… In all human endeavours, it is important to know when to change course to obtain a positive result. I wish the CPP well as it seeks to chart the course announced by its new Leadership. For me, this is the time to look forward and forward only, to a new and different political order…our new political movement aims to present a credible, united, disciplined and well organized election machine…we are a political movement guided by an agenda for change...Unfortunately the Ghanaian electoral laws do not permit a collective of right-minded, independent people to use the same platform and symbol for presidential and parliamentary campaigns, so we will of necessity convert literally, a political movement to become a political party. We will inaugurate this truly national political movement in the next two months at a national convention that will demonstrate our true character, strength and human character that we are gathering. Our goal is to contest the 2012 elections with a positive, progressive, different force.…,” Dr. Paa Kwesi Nduom said.

According to him, unlike the other political parties, this new political movement “believes in inclusiveness and stands against the winner takes all ideology”.

David Ampofo was at Dr Nduom's press confab on Wednesday

Flanked by his wife, Mrs Yvonne Nduom and some Nkrumaists including Richmond Keelson (Communications Director of the Nduom for 2012 campaign), and David Ampofo (Campaign Strategist of Dr. Nduom's team), the former Public Sector Reform Minister in the erstwhile Kufuor-led NPP administration, said Ghanaians have a unique opportunity of choosing between stagnation and progress in 2012 and urged the electorate to opt for the progressive independence he and his movement will offer.

“…We urge all who think and believe that Ghana deserves better leadership and the best government possible to join us now. If you are a teacher or nurse who believes that you can get your just reward right here on earth, join us. If you are a policeman, prison officer, fire service man or woman or soldier who needs better tools and technology to provide better service to the nation, join us. If you are a driver, a house help, a construction worker, join us for a more secure future. If you are a farmer or fisherman who is crying for help to make a better living, join us. If you are in the public service and in need of better motivation and equipment, join us. If you are in the private sector and need support from your government to grow your business, join us. If you are a Ghanaian who believes that our natural resources – gold, bauxite, manganese, diamond, oil and gas must benefit the Ghanaian now, join us. If you have supported the NDC, NPP and the other political parties and you now feel the need for an alternative, join us now. We are there for the Ghanaian. We are there for you,” he said.

Touting himself as best suited for the job of a president, “Edwumawura” as Dr Nduom is affectionately called, said he has the best policies and programmes to accelerate Ghana's development to a first world country..

“Everywhere we go, our young men and women cry out for one thing – jobs, jobs, jobs. Well, what we can say to them today is, “Have no fear, “Edwumawura” is here!...A new future beckons but it will not come into being unless we make a break from the old way of doing things. The time for action is now…What our experience in the 4th Republic has taught us is that we need a President who is by practical experience best suited for the job and who has demonstrated in his private life and in public service the ability to deliver positive results. I, Papa Kwesi Nduom, “Edwumawura”, believe I am the person most suited for the position of President of the Republic of Ghana come January 2013…,” an animated Dr. Nduom said.


Source: Rebecca Addo Tetteh/Peacefmonline.com

Monday, 26 December 2011

WINNERS Of The 2nd Annual Ghana Movie Awards Held Last Night


Kimberly Elsie - Best Actress

Best Actor In A Leading Role [English Language]
Madji Michel – Somewhere In Africa


Best Actor In A Leading Role [Local Language]
Kwaku Manu – Village Champion

Best Actress In A Leading Role [English Language]
Kimberly Elise - Ties That Bind

Best Actress In A Leading Role [Local Language]
Vivian Jill – Yaw Donkor

Best Actor In A Supporting Role [English Language]
Majid Michel – Somewhere In Africa

Best Actress In A Supporting Role [English Language]
Nadia Buari – Who Owns The City

Best Actress In A Supporting Role [Local Language]
Rose Mensah – Bu Bra Pa

Best Picture
Ties That Bind

Best Directing [English Language]
Leila Djansi & Kevin Huie – Ties That Bind


Best Directing [Local Language]
Augustine Abbey [Idikoko] – Agya Koo Gbengbentus


Best Art Direction
Ties That Bind


Best Music [Original Song]
Agya Koo Gbengbentus – Mframa


Best Movie Africa Collaboration
Ties That Bind


Best Cameo Actor
Kofi Adjorlolo – Somewhere In Africa


Best Cameo Actress
Grace Nortey – Adams Apple


Best Story
Adams Apple


Best Editing
Ties That Bind


Best Cinematography
Ties That Bind

Best Costume & Wardrobe
Queens Pride



Nadia, Van, Kyeiwaa & McBrown

Best Make-Up
Adams Apple

Best Visual Effects
Grave Yard

Best Discovery
Kwaku Manu – So, So And So

Best Music [Original Score]
Adams Apple

Best Sound Editing & Mixing
Ties That Bind

Best Writing Adapted Or Original Screenplay
Adams Apple

Best Actor Africa Collaboration
Ramsey Nouah Jnr. – Memories Of My Heart

Best Actress Africa Collaboration
Omotola Jalade – Ties That Bind


Source: peacefmonline.com

Sunday, 25 December 2011

40,000 British Women Have Breast Implants



Interpol has said it is seeking arrest of the founder of a French firm at the centre of a global breast implants scare. The international police agency listed Jean-Claude Mas, aged 72, as being sought by Costa Rica for offences concerning "life and health".

Earlier, France advised 30,000 woman to remove faulty breast implants made by Mr Mas' Poly Implant Prothese firm. It said there was no proven cancer risk but they could rupture dangerously.However, the UK government ruled out routine removal, saying there was "no evidence" of a safety concern.

It is thought some 40,000 British women have the implants.
In a "red notice", Interpol posted two police mugshots of Mr Mas.

It said Mr Mas was wanted by the Costa Rican authorities, without providing any further details.A lawyer for PIP told Reuters earlier on Friday that Mr Mas was in the south-eastern Var region of France and intended to stay there.

Yves Haddad added that Mr Mas had not spoken out publicly on the scandal out of "decency and discretion".Women around the world have PIP's implants, however most of them live in South America and Western Europe. The French health ministry says women with PIP implants don not have a higher risk of cancer than women with implants made by other companies, but says there are "well-established risks of ruptures".

Health Minister Xavier Bertrand urged French women to have the implants removed as a "preventive measure," but said that it was not "urgent."

The corrective surgery will be paid for out of public health funds but the French state will only pay for a new implant if the treatment was done as part of reconstructive surgery following breast cancer.

If women do not want to have their implants removed, the state will pay for six-monthly ultrasound scans.

The UK medicines watchdog, the Medicines and Healthcare products Regulatory Authority (MHRA), says France has reported rupture rates of around 5% for PIP implants, compared with 1% in the UK.

Eight cases of cancer have been reported in women with the implants but the French authorities say these are not necessarily linked to faulty implants.

PIP went into administration last year and the use of its implants was banned.


Source: bbc

Saturday, 24 December 2011

Thief Cuts Off Baby’s Hand




The shrill cry of a baby saved its mother from being robbed, but the baby ended with its hand badly cut by the pick-pocket.

The two-year-old baby strapped on its mother’s back, cried out in pain when the thief slashed its hand while attempting to cut open the mother’s hand bag at the busy Kaneshie market in Accra yesterday.
The child’s mother, Margaret Afriyie, a businesswoman, had gone to the market to buy for her store.

Eye witnesses said the baby’s left hand was in the hand bag, and as the thief struck a knife to the side of the bag in an attempt to cut it open, the bay’s loud cry alerted the mother who was initially confused because she did not realize what was happening to her baby. When she stopped and checked on the baby, she detected that her bag, which contained an amount of GH¢5,000, had been cut open together with the baby’s hand.

Fortunately for her, the sharp cry of the baby alerted the pick pocket who abandoned his “operation” and bolted with the speed of lighting. Onlookers who saw him take to his heels, attempted in vain to arrest him.

Speaking to the Times Madam Afriyie who looked traumatized, said she was thankful to God for protecting her child and the money from the hands of criminals parading as sellers and buyers at the market.



Source: The Ghanaian Times

Rapist Robbers Nabbed


The suspects in police custody

“After robbing our items from the room, one of the robbers asked me to cover my face with my blanket, after which he vigorously raped me,” these were the words of a 24-year-old graduate of the University of Ghana who recounted her ordeal to DAILY GUIDE after a robbery attack in their house.

The victim, according to information gathered, was raped at knife-point at Ashaley Botwe, near Adenta, by one of two suspected armed robbers who attacked her household around 2am on November 30, 2011.

The suspects are Daniel Klu, 24, and Daniel Zoglo aka ‘Kobi Commando’, 18.

They are currently in the grips of the Adenta District Police awaiting trial. Narrating the story to Daily Guide, the victim said when she attempted to shout, one of the suspects attempted to stab her with his knife.

She however identified the suspects as her attackers but said Daniel Zoglo was the one who raped her. The suspects robbed the victim of her laptop, two mobile phones and a gas cylinder.“I reported the incident to the police that same day and was given a medical form for medical attention,” the victim said.

Confirming the story to Daily Guide, the commander in charge of the Adenta District Police, Stephen K. Ahiatafu, said the suspects were arrested on December 12, 2011 by the police after they succeeded in robbing another victim at Prestige Estate, Ashaley Botwe.

Police received information that two suspected armed robbers had attacked a victim at Ashaley Botwe, robbing her of various items.

Items taken included a canon camera valued at GH¢2,250, a Samsung Tablet valued at GH¢600, a Sony video camera, a Sony digital camera, a Blackberry phone, a wedding ring and a cash of $800.

Upon seeing a group of security men from Prestige Estate, the robbers bolted with the booty, leaving their Hyundai taxicab with registration number GC6800-11, behind.

The vehicle was towed to the Manjor Police Station by the security men, together with the victim.

Around 2:30am that same day, suspect Daniel Klu, owner of the vehicle, came to the Adenta District Police Station to lodge a complaint that his taxicab, packed in front of his house, had been stolen.

The suspect was detained by the police upon interrogation while further investigations revealed that he was part of the gang that attacked the victim at Prestige Estate that morning.

Upon interrogation, Daniel Klu mentioned Daniel Zoglo as his accomplice.Some of the items were found in the robbers’ room upon a search by the police.

The raped victim identified the suspect after she was invited to the station by the police for an identification parade.Some of the items taken from her were also found in Zoglo’s room upon the search.

The suspects would be taken to court soon, according to the district commander.


Source: Linda Tenyah

Man Pushes Lover From Storey-Building


Cynthia Ansah

Kofi Fosu, a car washer who allegedly pushed his girlfriend from a storey building after assaulting her over allegations of infidelity, has been dragged to an Accra Circuit Court for causing unlawful harm.

The accused person was said to have initially hit Cynthia Ansah several times in the left eye during a misunderstanding, before later pushing her from the first floor of a wooden building when she fell and sustained serious injuries, apart from dislocating her right arm.

His plea was not taken and the trial judge, Justice Georgina Mensah-Datsa, ordered that he should be remanded in police custody to re-appear on January 3, 2012.

Sarah Ekua Acquah, the prosecuting officer, who presented the facts of the case, told the court that the complainant was a hairdresser who lived at Agbogbloshie and the accused person, a car washer at Sabon Zongo, near Abbosey Okai.

She said the two had been lovers for one-and-a-half years, adding that on Monday, December 19, 2011, the accused person visited the hairdresser at her residence.

According to her, the car washer, who suspected that his lover was cheating on him, confronted her, resulting in a misunderstanding which led to his assaulting her.

After the misunderstanding, the hairdresser was standing on the balcony when the estranged lover stamped her right eye till it turned red, before pushing her from the first floor of a wooden structure. She fell and dislocated her right arm.

The matter was reported to the Domestic Violence and Victim Support Unit (DOVVSU) and the accused person was given a medical form to attend hospital. The accused person was later arrested and arraigned after police had concluded investigations.


Source: Fidelia Achama/D-Guide

Tuesday, 20 December 2011

Charity Sex vs. Pity Sex




Is pushing yourself when you're not in the mood an investment in your relationship?
You may be bristling at the phrase "charity sex." If you're a woman, perhaps it brings to mind past, award-worthy, faked orgasms. Or maybe it reminds you of that time you bit your tongue and had sex because you were sick of hearing him ask for it. If you're a guy, you might be thinking, "better than nothing."

Or possibly, just possibly, you assume I'm referring to guilt-induced sex...... the sort you engage in because you feel bad for not throwing your partner a bone lately... the sort you suffer through, only to feel resentment later on.

But don't equate charity sex with pity sex. Rather, see charity sex as a means of reestablishing a connection with your partner, and of making an important investment in your relationship.

Think of it as a donation, rather than an assessment. As blogger Heidi Raykeil has written, "The other night I was enjoying some "me" time, curled up on the couch watching the latest episode of "Grey's Anatomy." Meanwhile, my husband was tossing and turning in bed, stressed out over his latest work project.

Frankly, between McDreamy and McSteamy, I was already pretty satisfied. But if I know one thing about my husband, it's that sex helps him sleep. So I put down the remote and headed upstairs to take one for the team. That's right: I had charity sex. And you know what? It was actually pretty hot."

Pity sex is about checking sex off your to-do list. Charity sex is about checking in with each other. It's not about meeting someone else's physical needs--it's about meeting your relationship's emotional ones. It's about opening up, quite literally, to each other.

Why might you engage in charity sex? You might do it because your partner is all wound up from work, and sex relaxes him or her. You might do it because she's feeling a little down, and sex gives her a boost. Or maybe you do it because you've both gone too many days, weeks, or even months without sex.

It's easy for sex to fall to the bottom of your to-do list when you have so many other things on your mind. The bills? The housework? The kids? The latest episode of "Breaking Bad"? Who has time for sex!? Unfortunately, the less often you have sex, the harder it is to get back into the groove. Testosterone levels drop and, as a result, libido levels drop, too. Before you know it, you're experiencing the longest dry spell of your life.

Charity? You feel you don't have enough to give! Fortunately, if you dig deep, you can still do your relationship some good. How?

Fake it 'til you make it. No. I'm not advocating fake orgasms. But there's definitely something to be said for putting in a little effort. With charity sex, you may not initially feel as if you're in the mood, but if you start going through the motions, your desire will likely catch up.

As Emily Nagoski has written in the "Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms," "Putting your body through the moves of faking one could actually lead to having one." So start slowly, with intimate touching. Allow yourself to enjoy some pleasurable sensations. Try not to think about anything --- your to-do list; that meeting tomorrow morning --- but how it feels when the two of you touch. Before you know it, that offering of charity sex will start to feel like a gift to both of you.

Take away the pressure. When you're not in the mood for sex, an orgasm may seem out of the question. And you may ask yourself: Why even have sex if I'm not getting the big payoff? But there's a lot to be said about the stuff that happens before the orgasm. So don't fixate too much on the end result. Rather, enjoy those moan-inducing caresses and toe-curling nibbles as they're happening. Remain in the moment. You never know. Your body may surprise you.

Remember how good it was. Remember all the reasons you're together. Remember what things were like when they were still new and undeniably hot. And then think of how much things have changed. How can you give back to that relationship? What are you willing to do to revitalize it?

Is charity sex better than no sex? And can it be a good thing for your relationship? You tell me.


Source: modernghana.com

Man Busted For Sodomy

Charles Nsiah

A caterer, Charles Nsiah, who could not wait for his wife to fully recover after child birth, and directed his sexual desire towards a 14-year-old boy, ramming the boy’s anus mercilessly to satisfy his libido, has been arrested by the Tesano Police.

The grandmother of the victim, Mercy Ansah of Alajo, reported to the Tesano Police Command that on Tuesday December 13, 2011, at about 9pm, she was awakened by some unusual noise at her residence.

The Tesano Divisional Crime Officer, ASP Stephen Donyina Kyeremeh, said Mercy came out and met a crowd in front of the suspect’s (a co-tenant) room.

Her curiosity led to the discovery that the suspect had had unnatural carnal knowledge of her grandson. The boy, after interrogation by Mercy, confessed that indeed the caterer had had anal sex with him. The Tesano Police issued a police medical form to the boy, who was taken to the Achimota Government Hospital where he was examined.

Nsiah was subsequently arrested and during interrogation, he told police that he had sodomised the boy because his wife had had a baby and so could not satisfy his sexual desire. The Tesano Domestic Violence Victim Support Unit (DOVVSU) investigating the case has since arraigned the suspect for defilement. His plea was not taken and will reappear in court in two weeks.


Source: Rocklyn Antonio

Monday, 19 December 2011

6 Steps for dealing with a cheating spouse




He cheated. Now what? If you’ve recently discovered your spouse was unfaithful, your head is probably spinning. To help you handle the initial shock and avoid an anxiety-induced meltdown, we’ve put together six survival strategies for dealing with a cheater.

For expert input, we turned to argument and affairs expert Sharon Rivkin, author of Breaking the Argument Cycle: How to Stop Fighting Without Therapy. She outlines six steps to follow when you first find out your partner has cheated.

Take deep breaths
Finding out that your partner has cheated can be a serious shock, especially if you didn’t suspect or see it coming. Ward off panic by taking some really deep breaths, Rivkin advises. This may seem like an overly simplistic first step, but it's an extremely effective way to help shift from panic mode to functionality. Unless you breathe deeply, you’re going to continually feed your panic and it will be much harder to calm down. “When you’re not breathing deeply, your brain is deprived of oxygen and your body tenses, feeding the cycle,” she explains. “The probability of making bad decisions increases.”

Confront the cheater
Depending on how you found out, you need to confront the cheater. Sitting on the information isn’t going to make you feel any better, but how you choose to deal with the betrayal is an individual decision. Who you are, how you found out, what your relationship is like with your partner, how much shock you’re in, etc., will all be factors that lead you to decide what you want to do right after you’ve found out that your partner is cheating, explains Rivkin. “Your whole world has fallen apart, similar to experiencing an earthquake or natural disaster, so do what your instincts dictate,” she says. “Do not judge or be hard on yourself for whatever you choose to do.”

Think about logistics
Even though you're in the midst of a relationship crisis, life still goes on. Things need to get done (going to work, getting the kids to school, chores), but it can all feel like a huge task. “Nothing comes easily right now,” Rivkin says. Feeling overwhelmed is normal, but don’t let that feeling overtake your day-to-day life, especially if you have kids.

• If you have kids, and if they see you crying and/or fighting, let them know immediately that it has nothing to do with them.

• If you feel immobilized and simply can’t drive your kids to school and/or their activities, make arrangements for them until you feel you are okay to drive.

“Remember, you’re in crisis mode, so be kind to yourself by getting some temporary help with basic functioning,” says Rivkin.

Create a support team
Because of the deep damage to trust that this kind of betrayal brings, it's important that, if you can afford it, you find a good therapist and get help as soon as possible. “I’ve discovered that the couples who seek help the quickest after an affair have the best recovery results,” Rivkin says. Good therapy can help a couple determine their direction (to stay or go) and whether trust can be rebuilt or not. In addition to seeking professional help, creating your support team will be a huge help. “Your team and connections will help you survive and recover from the affair quicker,” she explains. "Carefully assess your relationships with others to figure out who you think will be the most understanding, nonjudgmental and supportive person."

Ask questions
After you’ve confronted your partner about the affair, tons of questions will flood your mind (Why didn’t I know? Why didn’t I trust my intuition? Why did this happen?). It's through asking questions and feeling all your feelings that the healing starts, Rivkin says. "The questions and their answers are the first step to piecing together what happened to your relationship." It's important to look at the history and the patterns of your relationship and begin to understand where the breach of trusting each other really started.

Create a plan of no action
Most people usually have the tendency to want to take some kind of action right after discovering a cheating partner. It may help for the moment, but because you’re in crisis, your judgment can be impaired, so it’s wise not to make any big decisions at this time, Rivkin explains. Instead, make the smaller decisions first: Get a therapist, read a book, talk to your support system, do some writing and do some talking with your partner. “You will ultimately have some major decisions to make as to what direction you want your relationship to go, but these decisions will be made with time and clarity,” she says. So for now, don’t make any major decisions.

source: sheknows.com

Andre Ayew Grabs No. 10 Black Stars Jersey



Ghana midfielder Andre ‘Dede’ Ayew will wear the number 10 jersey at the Africa Cup of Nations in Gabon and Equatorial Guinea.

The 22-year--old has been officially handed the jersey on a permanent basis after Udinese midfielder Kwadwo Asamoah informed the Ghana Football Association (GFA) that he is no longer interested in the No. 10 shirt due to personal reasons.

Asamoah was given the jersey after former Black Stars captain, Stephen Appiah, retired from international football after the 2010 Fifa World Cup in South Africa.

It is reported that Asamoah has now demanded for the number 20 jersey which is the same number he uses with the Bianconeri .

The development means Ayew will now use the same jersey number his father, Abedi Pele, used whiles playing for the Black Stars.

source:peacefmonline

22 Reasons Why Younger Guys Fall For Older Women





In Older Women, Younger Men: New Options for Love and Romance, authors Felicia Brings and Susan Winter interviewed more than 200 men to discover the allure of the so-called "Mrs. Robinson syndrome." You'll be surprised at what men find appealing about older women.

"I'd do it again? definitely, no question. Oh yeah, and once you've done it, you definitely look at older women in another way." --Nick, 33

We've made our position known and shared the thoughts and experiences of the women to whom we talked. Now it's time to let the men speak for themselves. One important question we asked was what they felt an older woman has to offer. Here are some answers which are clear, articulate and to the point. Their sentiments represent a very large proportion of the opinions we heard expressed.

"I met Karolina at a party given by some friends. When I saw her, I thought she was just the perfect woman for me and I was sure about that. I wasn't looking for an older woman and Karolina wasn't looking for a younger man, but it just happened. (I was 39 and she was 55 then.) Our relationship is unique, because it's not just built on sex, but on trust, respect and love. We are both morning people and nearly always in a good mood. We are both hard-working with many hobbies in common. In my opinion, age has nothing to do with our relationship. In our twenty-five years together, we have never had a serious problem and we are still very happy." --Paolo, 64

"Pat is very special. Not only is she beautiful, but she has a wonderful sense of humor and is very giving. The ability to talk about anything with her was refreshing and engaging. In fact, when I first met her, I didn't know I was attracted to an 'older' woman. I knew she was older than I, but I didn't realize the disparity in age until she told me (which didn't happen until a couple of dates into our relationship). Pat offered me space, devotion and herself, which I couldn't find in anyone else. I take better care of myself now. She is a best friend who reflects back to me what a good person I am, which builds my confidence and self-esteem. I now have a better job and feel better about myself than ever before." --Neil, 35

Nigel, at 37, finds himself attracted to older women, in part for their clarity and substance and also their relaxed attitude about life:
"I find that I'm attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. I like the stimulation of a sharp intellect. I enjoy sitting down to dinner with someone who has a level of conversation I can appreciate and enjoy. I think younger women are sometimes too focused on starting families and that is rarely an issue with older women. I've always had relationships with older women. They know themselves. They have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. They are not just looking for guys who will be good fathers and providers. Older women can be more playful. They are more relaxed. It's really a personality thing for me regarding what is attractive. I enjoy a confident attitude and older women definitely have the upper hand in that area."

Dan, age 24, also expressed a similar theme:
"When I meet a woman over 30, she's usually very clear and focused. She knows what she wants in life and it makes being with her so much easier. I look at a lot of my friends who have girlfriends their age and younger and the problems they have strike me as ridiculous. They frequently act foolish and immature. I don't have time for that behavior -- that's why I like mature women."

That life experience is sexy was also a repeated theme:
"Just the fact that there's so much to learn from an older woman, that they have so many more life experiences to draw upon, is an adventure to me. It's like a rush." --Vincent, 31

Some young men saw themselves reflected back in an older woman and realized the woman's own specialness:

"She was very beautiful and caring and we had similar interests. She offered me the opportunity to see another perspective on a lot of different issues. I mean, older women think differently on certain issues and they've got more experience. I grew up a lot with her. Yeah, definitely, she helped me to grow up. She made me realize how important I could be in making someone else happy. Not that I was doing it for her, but just being with her." --Art, 27

Fred, age 28, told us what qualities attracted him to older women: "The experiences in life that they've had make them more grounded and realistic."

When asked what a mature woman offered him that he couldn't find in a younger woman, Fred answered: "Emotional stability. Need I say more? There have been nothing but positives in my relationships with two older women. They were able to see things in me that I could not see in myself. Also, there were levels of honesty unlike anything I've experienced even with best friends."

Fred gave us a wealth of information over several interviews. Open, upbeat and extremely handsome, he revealed the enormous love and respect he shared with his former partner and now shares with his current partner.

Fred's first older-woman experience occurred when he was 21 years old and Gretchen was 37. They lived together for two years. They are both still very close and see each other regularly. Not only did they have a tremendous friendship as the basis of their relationship, but an extraordinary sex life as well. Recently, this woman underwent major surgery and it was her ex-boyfriend Fred, not the woman's current older boyfriend, who was by her side. Gretchen, now 44, was involved with a man of 51 and he was simply too busy with work and personal commitments to be available when she really needed him. It was Fred who visited her on a regular basis and saw to it that she had what she needed during her recuperation.

After his relationship with Gretchen ended, Fred tried dating girls in their early twenties. He explained, often quite humorously, how ridiculous he felt trying to have meaningful conversation over blaring music at a dance club. His brief experimentation with younger females only reaped endless head games, confusion and immature behavior. Resolutely, Fred abandoned the "young woman trial period." He knew he liked older women and that was his standard. He decided this time to accept it.

His next relationship was with Marla, a co-worker. They were great friends and then she began to pursue him. Why not? he thought. She was older. Maybe it would work. But Marla's flaw seemed to be that she was only five years older -- and for Fred, that still wasn't enough to produce the kind of emotional maturity and depth for which he searched.

After a year or so of taking a "time-out," Fred met Lynne. She is 10 years older. Fred's respect and appreciation of older women was clear when he spoke:

"The way mature women carry themselves shows they know who they are. It equates to stability. They've already figured out who they are. Maybe not all the time, but a lot more often than younger women. They are all-around much more attractive to me.

"Also, they are much more experienced with life. You know this is the kind of person who's going to tell you exactly what they want and they are more sure of themselves than the people my age or younger. Older women are much more well rounded -- they know what they feel and why they feel it.

"It's easier to have a relationship with an older woman, because she knows how to communicate what she wants. It has a snowball effect all the way around.

"I have a preference for women starting at about 10 years older than myself and up. It's adventurous for both of us, because it's a whole new exciting journey. Younger women just don't allow me to grow in the ways older women do."

Not all older woman/younger man relationships last forever, but Fred's answer to how he handled the ending of his relationship with an older woman was especially insightful: "I went on with my life and took with me many memories and experiences that made me mentally and emotionally rich. I considered it a hell of a jump-start on life."


Source: ivillage.com

Sunday, 18 December 2011

2 Ladies Fight Over Who’s Real Afia Schwarzenegger



For now, viewers of the popular hit TV series ‘Afia Schwarzenegger’ have come to terms that Valentina Nana Agyewaa, the lead character in the series has been swapped with Emmeleine Nanahemaa Acheampong, the co-host of Adom FM’s Entertainment Program; Adom Billboard.

Though, immediate reasons for her expulsion are currently unknown, people believe that, her fracas with producer of the show, Delay was the reason, kasapahene.blogspot.com has learnt.

The former Afia Schwarzenegger recently spoke with Rashida, host of Awake on ETV Ghana about her copycat [the new Afia Schwarzenegger].

She mocks her during the entire duration of the interview.

She talked to Rashida about the acrimony surrounding the TV series of the same name and why she’s parted with the production team that made Afia Schwarzenegger a household name.

She also reveals that she is “physically single” when asked about her relationship status.

It appears she is busy after her removal from the show; she currently hosts ‘Berma Nkwan’ on Multi TV. Also recording is ‘Amanmra Fie’, to be aired on the same station. She also hinted that, she is coming out with a new TV series ‘Original ‘Afia’ Schwarzenegger’. Hmmmm!



Source: The Chronicle

Pawpaw Finds Love

Osita Iheme
Barely a month after his pal Aki tied the nuptial knot, Nollywood reports say Osita Iheme has also found love and may be heading for the altar very soon.

Many thought that the diminutive duo couldn’t get women to marry due to their sizes. But it is now obvious that getting a woman to marry goes beyond height. After Aki’s marriage, questions were raised about when his friend Pawpaw will also marry.

Nigeriafilms.com reported that Pawpaw was so happy for Aki’s decision to marry and added that he had equally found love. But when pressed to reveal the identity of the woman rocking his world, he declined to comment. He rather appealed to us to be patient. “I am in serious relationship,” was all he said.

Osita is arguably one of the best actors in Nollywood. He is widely known for playing the role of ‘Pawpaw’ in the film ‘Aki na Ukwa’, alongside Chinedu Ikedieze.

In 2007, Osita received the Lifetime Achievement Award at the African Movie Academy Awards. He is considered one of Nigeria’s most famous actors.

Recently, he was awarded the Nigeria National Honour of Member of the Order of the Federal Republic (MFR). “It’s exciting and great to be so chosen amongst millions of eminent Nigerians. When I missed it last year, I told people my own is coming. And finally it’s here.

So, I am so, so happy. I thank President Goodluck Jonathan for his honour. I promise I won’t disappoint. It’s now Aki and Pawpaw MFR. God is the greatest,” he recently said about the award.

Credited with over 100 movies, and on high demand as a performing artiste, Pawpaw is one of the richest actors in Nollywood.
He lives in an estate in Ogba, Ikeja axis of Lagos while he and Chinedu (Aki) are building a twin duplex in Lagos. Both have also completed their buildings in Aba, Enyimba City, Abia State.


Source: Nigeriafilms.com/peacefmonline

Saturday, 17 December 2011

The rules for dating your friend’s ex



Grill yourself about what the attraction really is

Dating a friend’s ex-boyfriend isn’t just playing with fire -- it’s a bomb that can implode your whole social circle. Your friendship may not survive, and if it does, it will never be the same. “That sounds so ominous, but your day-to-day dynamic and the context of what you share with each other will be different,” says dating expert Natasha Burton, co-author of The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags. “I’d caution women to take stock of their friendship and ask ‘Is this guy really worth it?’” Ask yourself Are you drawn to the excitement of plucking forbidden fruit? Or is there an authentic connection that you can see going the distance? “There has to be more than the thrill of the drama because eventually that will fizzle out,” says Lisa Paz, Ph.D., a marriage, family and sex therapist in Miami.

Question his motives
Even mind-blowing sex ultimately isn’t worth sacrificing a friendship, so make sure you and Mr. Ex both see the relationship heading in the same direction and that his motivations are on the up and up. After all, it’s one thing if he was your friend’s college flame and you bump into him 10 years later in an Italian cooking class and bond over lasagna. It’s quite another if he dumped her last weekend and wants to hook up with you now. “It’s a red flag if a guy wants to date you right after he broke up with your best friend, especially if they were serious,” warns Burton. “If he’s flirting with you a few weeks later, it’s probably more to make her upset and show he can get a girl who’s supposed to be off-limits, than any genuine interest in you.”

Take it slow!
If your conscience gives you the green light to pursue Mr. Ex, still take things slow, even more slowly than you normally might with any other guy. Though the temptation will be incredibly strong, “don’t jump right into bed with this guy,” counsels British dating expert Hayley Quinn. “Build your relationship in a more public way, with daytime activities, coffee dates, lunches. That’s safer because you’re less likely to get carried away and end up in bed. Going slowly also gives you time to exit if it looks like it’s not going anywhere.” (And, Quinn notes, if the relationship is a non-starter, you can easily explain away a few coffees and lunches, and no one needs to know a thing about it).

‘Fess up to your friend fast
If you may have something special with Mr. Ex, your friend needs to know. And she needs to hear the news from you. Dating experts differ on when to speak up. Burton thinks anything less than full-disclosure on first contact could be seen as “sneaky.” Others say wait unit there’s something to report. “Once you’ve had that first kiss and feel like your relationship could be more than casual, then you need to tell, and certainly if you’ve already been to bed,” says Los Angeles relationship and dating expert Julie Spira, founder of Cyberdatingexpert.com. Since there’s no universe in which this will be a pleasant, or even easy, conversation to have, keep it short, simple and honest: I don’t want to hurt your feelings, but I don’t want to hide this from you either. I’ve been going out with Mr. Ex.

Prepare for the backlash
If telling your friend you’re dating her ex was hard, this next part may be harder. Once everything’s out in the open, you’ve got to sit still with your mouth shut and brace yourself for the emotional backlash. “Expect a very angry, jealous response,” predicts Yahoo’s mental health expert Rob Dobrenski, Ph.D., author of Crazy: Notes On and Off the Couch. “Don’t go in with the idea of defending what you did because that says to your friend ‘You’re not allowed to feel what you’re feeling right now.’ But if you let your friend have her say, she may come around at some point.”

Follow your friend’s lead
As the wounded party in this situation, your pal (if she remains one) gets to set the tone for how friendly she wants to still be with you… and how much she wants to see and hear about you as a couple. “If you’re breaking this taboo, you’re going to have to acquiesce to your friend’s comfort level to try to salvage your friendship,” says Paz. That said, the best way to show that you still want to be a friend is to spend time with her one-on-one and continue to include her in group gatherings even if her ex, your new beau, will be there, too. “She can always say she’s busy if she’s uncomfortable, but at least you’ve done the right thing by inviting her,” says Spira. “I see too many women dumping friends for men and then if that relationship ends, they’ve lost a friend.”

Be prepared to lose your friend
If you date a friend’s ex, be prepared for her to wash her hands of you. “You’re going to feel sad, but you’re just going to have to deal with it,” explains Dobrenski. Still, it’s possible that after some time has passed, you may be able to heal the rift. “I’ve had clients who’ve reconnected with friends, sometimes weeks, sometimes years, after the dust has settled.” But you’re going to have to be patient. “Don’t push it. That’s doubly unfair to your friend who’s lost both her ex and you.”

Don’t spread the news on Facebook
Naturally, you want to tell everyone your new relationship status, but resist doing it on Facebook, cautions Dobrenski. Assuming you’re still Facebook friends with your pal, you should be especially sensitive about posting updates and photos that could potentially hurt her feelings. “You don’t know who will see that and it could lead to some nasty postings on your wall,” he says. Instead, personally tell a few close friends and then let the grapevine do its work. “Depending on how your friend reacted to the news, I would say no posting pictures of the two of you on Facebook for six months to a year,” says Paz. “Take the high road where your friend is concerned rather than trying to assert your new position as Girlfriend.”

Ease into your social life as a couple
When you and your girlfriend move in the same social circle, presenting her ex-boyfriend as your new man requires some delicate maneuvering. “The crowd reaction can be a lot more hostile because a pack mentality takes over,” explains Quinn. “If you have one outspoken friend who’s vehemently opposed to your new relationship, she can affect how everyone else in the group responds, even if they might have been fine with it.” You may get a better (less judgmental) reception if you plan small get-togethers with just a few friends at a time. “Do it at your place, on your turf, and it won’t feel like you’re imposing your new status on the group,” says Paz. Don’t push and the crowd will likely welcome you back in time. But if you continue to feel frozen out, spend time with friends who support you and seek out some new friends who don’t know your backstory.

Don’t share relationship details with her
You may have shared the minutiae of your past relationships with your gal pal, from the weird way the last guy you dated chewed his food to that thing he did with his hips that drove you wild. But when it comes to her ex, silence on matters both sexual and not really is golden. “Even in the best case scenario where you get your friend’s blessing, tread really lightly on how much you share,” advises Paz. “Even if we’re over someone, we can still be a little territorial and competitive, so something as minor as you getting along well with his mother if she never did can really sting.”

Play dumb about his past with her
Dating a friend’s ex means you’re going into the relationship with a lot more intimate knowledge about him than you’d have about someone you just met. That insider information could give you a leg up on what makes him tick, but it can also lead to your own hurt feelings. “It takes a lot of self-control not to inventory what you know about his past relationship, and ask him why you guys aren’t doing things in bed that you heard he did with your friend,” says Paz. “That kind of comparison is just a lose-lose situation.”

Be patient
In situations like these, time really is on your side. Although your relationship with your friend’s ex may start out a little bumpy, if you behave gracefully and honestly and the relationship remains strong, your guy will eventually come to be known as your boyfriend rather than your pal’s ex. “These things get forgotten as your relationship becomes more serious,” says Quinn. “People will eventually see this wasn’t just some fling, and that you made the right choice.”

Friday, 16 December 2011

“I Support Killing Of Fulani Nomads” - PC Appiah Ofori

PC Appiah Ofori


The outspoken New Patriotic Party (NPP) Member of Parliament for Asikuma-Odoben-Brakwa, P. C Appiah Ofori, has told Citi News that any reprisal attacks on Fulani nomads is justified.

According to him, he has no sympathies for any nomad who gets lynched for suspected crimes committed against their local hosts.

He said Ghanaians have the legal right to defend themselves when they come under any form of attack from the herdsmen.

“If in the course of defending ourselves they have to die then it is justified,” the MP stated. “So killing them I personally support it. ”

Thirteen nomads were recently slaughtered in Gushegu in the Northern region of Ghana.

Several others have either been lynched or been under constant attack from locals in areas such as Agogo in the Ashanti region where vigilante attacks against them are all too common.

There are reports that the Fulani xenophobia has spread to the Brong Ahafo region too where the locals are also threatening vigilantism against the nomads if the authorities do not get them out of the area.

Speaking in an interview with Citi News Hon. Appiah Ofori said he sees nothing wrong with any defensive attacks on nomadic Fulanis, who allegedly rape and kill Ghanaians without provocation.

“It has become chronic that such people come to this country to perpetuate crimes,” the legislator said. “The time is right for the country to put its feet down. If this people have come to do bad things we must try to defend ourselves. ”

“If they have come to kill my brothers should I allow them to get away? ” he asked, adding that “if you have come to kill my brother and I am in the position to kill you back yes I will. ”

Andre 'Dede' Ayew named BBC African Footballer of 2011


Andre 'Dede' Ayew (left) and his father, Abedi 'Pele' Ayew
Andre 'Dede' Ayew receives the trophy from his father, Abedi Pele, who won the BBC award in 1991
 
 
Ghana and Marseille winger Andre "Dede" Ayew has been named the BBC's African Footballer of the Year for 2011.
The 21-year-old took over a third of the votes to follow in the footsteps of his father, Abedi "Pele" Ayew, who won the inaugural BBC award in 1991.
Ayew beat Yaya Toure, Gervinho, Samuel Eto'o and Seydou Keita to the title.
"I'm honoured and surprised to receive this prestigious award, especially considering the great players who have won it in the past," said Ayew
After being named in Ghana's Africa Cup of Nations squad on Thursday, Andre's brother Jordan is in line to become the third of Abedi Pele's sons to play at the tournament
"I thank all the people who voted for me - in Ghana, in Africa and in the world.
"I'm going to work hard to show them they made a good choice."
The award was voted for by African football fans who nominated their favourites either by text or email.
They chose from a shortlist which was drawn up by football experts from every country in Africa, who based their choices on players' skill, technical ability, teamwork, consistency and fair play.
After making an impact on the international stage in 2010, when he impressed observers at both the Africa Cup of Nations and Fifa World Cup, 2011 marked a year when Ayew became a key figure at club level.
He finished the 2010-11 campaign as a regular starter for Marseille for the first time in his career, with his goal tally of 11 aiding his cause.
At the start of this season, he struck a hat-trick to help Marseille win the French Super League - and has since contested all but one of his side's 17 league games, scoring six times.
Injury ruled him out of Marseille's opening Champions League group game but the Ghanaian has gone on to miss just one minute of European action since then, as the 1993 champions reached the knockout stages.
At international level, Ayew also played a key role in ensuring that the Black Stars qualified for the 2012 Africa Cup of Nations with an unbeaten record.
Abedi "Pele" Ayew was the first winner of the BBC African Sports Star of the Year award for his achievements in 1991, with the title later turning into the current BBC African Footballer of the Year award.
"Dede" becomes the fifth Ghanaian to win after his father, Sammy Kuffour (2001), Michael Essien (2006) and last year's winner Asamoah Gyan.
Previous winners of BBC African Footballer of the Year award:
2010 - Asamoah Gyan (Sunderland & Ghana)
2009 - Didier Drogba (Chelsea & Ivory Coast)
2008 - Mohamed Aboutrika (Al Ahly & Egypt)
2007 - Emmanuel Adebayor (Arsenal & Togo)
2006 - Michael Essien (Chelsea & Ghana)
2005 - Mohamed Barakat (Al Ahly & Egypt)
2004 - Jay Jay Okocha (Bolton & Nigeria)
2003 - Jay Jay Okocha (Bolton & Nigeria)
2002 - El Hadji Diouf (Liverpool & Senegal)
2001 - Sammy Kuffour (Bayern Munich & Ghana)
2000 - Patrick Mboma (Parma & Cameroon)

source: http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport2/hi/football/16202312.stm

Actress Nana Ama MacBrown Out With 2Toff

2Toff and Nana Ama McBrown(Middle)



Hip life duo, Ulrich Addy (Red Eye) and Richard Oguns (Ogunskele) who make up 2toff, have released yet another song I’m Sorry featuring Nana Ama MacBrown.

According the duo who have three albums to their credit, their latest, I’m Sorry will take Ghana by storm especially bringing Nana Ama MacBrwon on board.

Asked why they went in for Nana Ama MacBrown and not Efya, Irene, Becca or any other female artist who are already known music artistes, 2 Toff said Nana Ama MacBrown can be considered as one of the best female musician a fact most people are unaware of.

“We realised Nana Ama MacBrown has a very good voice after we listened to her on a few occasions, her voice is perfect that is why we featured her on our new single,” 2Toff said.

Their latest, "I’m Sorry", which is set to be released next week was recorded, mixed and mastered at 2 Toff studios.

2Toff believes despite football grabbing the attention of Ghanaians, music will take its rightful place on the scene in the not too distant future.

“The industry is gradually collapsing because all the attention has been shifted to soccer. Ghanaian music is already out there on the international market but a lot more needs to be done to make it flourish,” they added.

“We went away for some years but we are fully back. We know our fans missed us and we missed them too. We are now growing bigger and better and we believe nothing is going to stop us from what we enjoy doing most.

When contacted, the bubbly actress cum singer disclosed that the ability to sing gracefully has always been there, but was awaiting the the right moment.

According to her, she will venture into full time singing very soon.

The last album 2Toff released was titled "Back Again" and comprised tracks like Ma Swagga Back, My Soul, Yebre Mo Odo ft S.K Original, Hosla and Mama.




Source: Eugene Osafo-Nkansah/Peacefmonline.com/Ghana

Delay Can’t Fire Me - Afia Schwarzenegger



Afia Schwarzenegger

A renowned Ghanaian actress Valentina Nana Agyeiwaa has denied been fired from one of the most popular TV series ‘Afia Schwarzenegger by Executive Producer Deloris Frimpong-Manso.

The actress whose acting style is ‘patronized’ by many folks across the country denied this in an interview with The Weekend Moment, stated that she resigned personally from ‘Afia Scwarzenegger’ and that nobody can fire her.

She said “I officially resigned on radio so I don’t see why Ghanaians find it difficult to understand my reason of resignation.

“I shot 20 episodes of Afia Schwarzenegger on contract basis and this time around I don’t like the management and I quit; no one fired me” Valentina stated.

Nana Agyeiwa grabbed the best TV female comedian award at the Kumawood Movie Festival and Akoben movie awards 2011 in Kumasi; but when asked about the major cause of her resignation from the most viewed TV series she snubbed the interviewer.

The scuffle between the producer of the show Deloris Frimpong-Manso known as Delay and the lead characters is the reason why Valentina Nana Agyeiwa has been replaced by Adom FM’s Bill board entertainment show host Emmeliene Nanahemaa Acheampong.


Source: The Weekend Moment/peacefmonline

Asem Clears Rape Allegation



Asem

Several months after he refused to comment about rape allegations leveled against him some time this year, Ghanaian rapper Asem, born Nana Wiafe Asante Mensah, has finally replied critics via his new single titled ‘Last Song’, produced by Magnom.

The song’s lyrics tried to tackle the problems that he went through the year, from rape allegations and his GLO deal to his issues with Lynx Entertainment. The song, he said, was his last for the year 2011, labeling the year as tough for him.

Its lyrics spoke about how he was not afraid of certain people who wanted to take his shine away from him. He also took some time to describe his kind of women, possibly trying to hint that the girl in the rape brouhaha was not his type. “I like girl wey dey shoto with glory, independent girls with their bottom glory,” he rapped.

“If I didn’t say it they say I say it. I didn’t rape, they say I raped. They get like I stop singing. But because of GLO, I’m satisfied. This be the last song of the year, so lend me your eyes. I know year you have been waiting for this.” Sometime this year, the hip-hop musician allegedly drugged, raped and impregnated a teenage girl.

The girl’s name was given simply as Queenie and her real age remains a mystery. She claimed to be 17 but her mother swore heaven and earth she was 15. The matter got complicated as both daughter and mother said the pregnancy had been aborted and that the alleged rape happened last year but no police report was made.

Asem flatly denied all three allegations but said he would not pass comments on it publicly because his management intended taking a legal action against his accusers. Not long after, Asem parted ways with Lynx Entertainment to form his record label.

Asem is a product of the Ghana Institute of Journalism and had his secondary education at St. Peter’s Senior High School. He is currently one of the best artistes that Lynx Entertainment ever recorded and is best remembered for hit songs like ‘Give Me Blow’, ‘2010 Filla’, ‘Wu B3 Da Ntem’, ‘No More Kpayor’, ‘School De Be’ and ‘Pigaro’.



Source: News One/peacefmonline

Thursday, 15 December 2011

Black Stars Squad for CAN 2012




Black stars coach Goran Stevanovic has named premier league leading scorer Emmanuel Baffour and Jordan Ayew in a 25-man squad for the 2012 African Cup of Nations.

2009 world youth player Dominic Adiyiah and veteran goalkeeper Richard Kingson were axed from the squad.

Ghana will face initial competition from Guinea, Mali and Botswana in group D of the competition in Equatorial Guinea and Gabon.

Ghana squad:

Goalkeepers:

Adam Kwarasey, Daniel Agyei, Ernest Sowah

Defenders:

John Painstil, Samuel Inkoom, Daniel Opare, Massawudu Alhassan, Lee Addy, Isaac Vorsah, Jonathan Mensah, John Mensah, John Boye

Midfielders:

Derek Boateng, Anthony Annan, Jordan Ayew, Emmanuel Agyemang Badu, Abu Mohammed, Dede Ayew, Sulley Muntari, Charles Takyi, Kwadwo Asamoah

Strikers: Asamoah Gyan, Prince Tagoe, Derek Asamoah, Emmanuel Baffour.

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